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Letters to Persons in the World

by St. Francis de Sales

Sophia Institute Press, New Hampshire, Manchester, 1995

 

   

 

Letters to a Wife and Mother       Letters to Persons in Religion

Letters to Persons in the World  Letters of Spiritual Direction

 

   

 

God’s will for you

– How to know it, how to do it.

Sensible advice from the Saint trusted and loved by generations of Christians.

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St. Francis de Sales, renowned author of The Introduction to the Devout Life, was also a dearly beloved Pastor, famous for his gentle, sensible advice on matters spiritual and practical.  Like a seventeenth-century, Dear Abby, this holy priest wrote more than twenty thousand thoughtful, fascinating, personal letters to people who approached him for guidance.

 

These letters to persons in all walks of life show that the spiritual difficulties people had three hundred years ago are largely the same that you and I have today: impatience, anger, discouragement, difficulties in prayer, family strife, sickness, and fear of death.

 

In his touching letters to people suffering these and other common troubles, St. Francis de Sales shows how God wants each of us to deal with such problems and how we can gain the strength and courage to do so.  Indeed, he shows how we can even learn to see God’s will in them and to do His will joyfully.

 

These letters to persons in all walks of life show that the spiritual difficulties people had three hundred years ago are largely the same that you and I have today: impatience, anger, discouragement, difficulties in prayer, family strife, sickness, and fear of death.

 

*  Prayer, Faith, and Accepting your Vocation

*  Loving and Serving God in your daily life

*  Bearing your Cross

*  Overcoming fear, temptation, Failure and discouragement

 

 

 

  

The French originals of the letters in this collection can be found in the oeuvres de Saint Francois de Sales, Edition Complete, vols. 11-21 (Annecy: J. Nierat, 1900-1923)

  

 

 

 

Thy Will be Done: Letters to Persons in the World

 

   

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

draws on the English translation of the letters of St. Francis de Sales originally published in The Library of St. Francis de Sales, vol. 1, Letters to Persons in the World, translated by the very Reverend Henry Benedict Mackey (London: Burns & Oates, Ltd.; New York, Cincinnati, Chicago: Benziger Brothers, 1894).  For this 1995 edition, there have been extensive editorial revisions and improvements in the translation.

Sophia Institute Press, New Hampshire, Manchester, 1995

 

Among the topics covered by St. Francis are:

*    Family, work, and prayer: how to set your priorities

*    Temptation and sin: you can turn them into spiritual victories

*    Anxiety about the future: your job, your children, anything at all. It can be overcome!

*    Helplessness: how to cope when you’re not in control

- especially in sickness, age or pregnancy

*    Family problems: how to keep calm in their midst

– and even use them to improve your life!

*    Your flaws: the right response.  Plus, ways to bear faults you can’t overcome

*    Prayer: do you pray too much? St. Francis helps you decide

*    The death of loved ones and your own approaching death

– how should a Christian respond?

*    Charity: have you succumbed to its dangerous counterfeit?

*    Flagrant sinner – how a Christian must act around them

*    And dozens of other helpful topics!

 

 

Thy Will Be Done: Letters to Persons in the World

 

TABLE OF CONTENTS

 

 

Prayer, Faith, and Accepting your Vocation

*  Thy Will be done

To a young woman prevented from becoming a nun

*  Do the will of God joyfully

To a woman, on obtaining true devotion and peace of soul

*  Serve God where you are

To a priest, on fidelity to one’s calling

*  Let us be what we are, and let us be it well

To a wife who thinks marriage hinders holiness

*  Our faith should be naked and simple

To a nun, on Christian faith

*  There are two principal reasons for prayer

To a young woman having difficulty praying

*  Little virtues prepare for contemplation of God

To Jane de Chantal, on prayer and virtue

*  We must remain in the presence of God

To Jane de Chantal, on prayer

*  Never does God leave us save to hold us better

To Jane de Chantal, in praise of the “little virtues”

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Loving and Serving God in your daily life

*  Marriage is an exercise in mortification

To a young woman contemplating marriage

*  As far as possible, make your devotion attractive

To a married woman, on harmonizing family and devotion

*  Have patience with everyone, including yourself

To a woman beset by many tasks

*  Keep yourself gentle amid household troubles

To a busy housewife, on maintaining a spiritual calm

*  Do what you see can be done with love

To a wife having difficulties living with her parents-in-law

*  Parents can demand more than God Himself

To a widow, on her duties to her mother

*  Avoid making your devotion troublesome

To a married woman, whose relatives interfere with her devotions

*  Have contempt for contempt

To a woman angered by her broken engagement

*  Lord, what would You have me do?

To a man wondering if he has a religious vocation

*  Take Jesus as your patron

To a young man going to live at court

*  Remain innocent among the hissing of serpents

To a woman, on dealing with improper conversations

*  Never speak evil of your neighbour

To Jane de Chantal, on not judging others

*  Extravagant recreations may be blameworthy

To a woman, on Christian entertainment

*  We must not ask of ourselves what we don’t have

To a pregnant woman suffering lassitude and discouragement

*  If you get tired kneeling, sit down

To a pregnant woman, on loving God in her suffering

*  You will not lack mortification

To a pregnant woman, telling her to eat properly

*  We must always walk faithfully

To a childless woman

*  Illness can make you agreeable to God

To a woman who is ill, on resignation to troublesome things

*  You are being crowned with His crown of thorns

To a woman suffering great physical pain

*  Often the world calls evil what is good

To a woman whose husband is ill

*  Rest in the arms of Providence

To a woman facing the death of her child

*  In confidence, lift up your heart to our Redeemer

To a woman, on how to conquer the fear of death

*  We must slowly withdraw from the world

To an elderly man, telling him how to prepare for death

*  This dear child was more God’s than yours

To a man whose son has died

*  Think of no other place than Paradise or Purgatory

To a woman anxious about the fate of her deceased son

*  How tenderly I loved her!

To Jane de Chantal, on the death of Francis’ younger sister

*  Calm your mind, lift up your heart

To a woman whose husband died recently

*  Miserable beggars receive the greatest mercy

To Jane de Chantal, on humility and widowhood

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Bearing your Cross

*  Love God crucified, even amid darkness

To Jane de Chantal, on bearing abjection, and even longing for it

*  Do not desire mortifications

To a woman striving too hard for perfection

*  Practise the mortifications that are given to you

To a woman, on serving God with gentleness and strength

*  O good Cross, so loved by my Saviour

To a woman, on bearing the troubles of this life

*  You only want to bear the crosses that you choose

To Jane de Chantal, on true resignation of spirit

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Overcoming fear, temptation, Failure and discouragement

*  We must be patient as we seek perfection

To a young woman who is discouraged by spiritual failures

*  Have courage, for you have only just begun

To a young woman, on how to benefit from affliction

*  Be gentle and charitable to your soul

To a woman, distressed by her sins

*  God loves greater infirmity with greater tenderness

To a superior of the Visitation Nuns, on accepting imperfections

*  We must bear ourselves until God bears us to Heaven

To a woman struggling with spiritual problems

*  Self-love can be mortified, but never dies

To a nun, on the masks that self-love wears

*  We must attain holy indifference

To a woman, on struggling against self-love

*  Lean on the mercy of God

To a woman wondering whether she has done her duty

*  To change the world, we must change ourselves

To a woman angered by sinfulness in the world

*  In patience shall you possess your soul

To a Jane de Chantal, on patience and bearing temptations

*  Do not worry yourself about temptations

To a Jane de Chantal, on dealing with temptations

*  We must not be fearful of fear

To a man fearful of judgement after death

*  Constrain yourself only to your serving God well

To Jane de Chantal, on calming the troubled spirit

*  True simplicity is always good and agreeable to God

To Jane de Chantal, on charity and humility

*  We must do all by love and nothing by force

To Jane de Chantal, on temptation and spiritual liberty

*  Be then all for God

To a young woman, on giving oneself to God

 

   

 

 

 

 

 

   

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